I read John Montanari’s recent letter with concern, not just because it spreads misinformation about LGBTQIA+ people and organizations, but because it takes a moment of joy, inclusion, and community and twists it into something ominous [“Keep activists away from our children,” Gazette, Sept. 18].
‘The “horror-inducing activism” he’s referring to? A peaceful, affirming show of support outside Amherst Regional Middle School on the first day of class — rainbow umbrellas, bubbles, signs that read “U R Fabulous.” No speeches. No pressure. Just community members reminding students that they are loved and they belong.
I’m not sure why the letter writer finds bubbles and rainbows so frightening, but let’s be clear: this was not a protest, not indoctrination, and not a threat. It was adults creating a joyful, welcoming space for kids who too often feel unseen.
Montanari’s framing of LGBTQIA+ support as a “social contagion” or “abusive” is deeply misleading. He ignores the reality that affirming environments lead to better mental health, lower suicide risk, and improved academic outcomes for LGBTQIA+ youth. That’s not dangerous. That’s life-saving.
He also cherry-picks a “5,000%” increase in trans identification without context. That number often gets thrown around to shock, but it reflects increased visibility, acceptance, and willingness to come out. Just like left-handedness “increased” after the practice of forcing kids to write right-handed stopped, more youth today feel safe enough to express who they are. This should be celebrated, not feared.
I’m not sure what drives the letter writer to view so many of his neighbors as scary enemies. On his own public platforms, he describes himself as a classical music presenter, former rideshare driver, choral singer, wine enthusiast, cook, and sports fan. In other words, someone who probably shares more in common with his community than he realizes.
It’s easy to reduce people to political talking points. It’s harder, but far more meaningful, to see people as whole. That’s what the folks with the rainbow umbrellas were doing. If even one student walked into school feeling more welcome or more seen because of it, then yes, that morning was a success.
Hannah Hurwitz
Amherst
